“What’s wrong?”
Is she serious?
I’m 4 months postpartum with my first daughter. I find out yesterday that my husband, the man I’ve been with for over 8 years is basically a stranger to me. She’s known the truth the entire time and I get a “What’s wrong?” message from her this morning.
Like gas on the fire.
I’ve been at a slow burn for the past 20 hours; but that just lit me up.
She is not in the dark about what’s wrong, she’s had a better idea for the past 8 years of what is wrong than I did.
In her defense, she doesn’t know how deep it cuts. She lost my trust yesterday too. I not only lost a husband, I lost a sister. I’ve gained 2 strangers that for now I’m obligated to see. My husband bears most of the blame but she is not innocent. She watched us build a life on a foundation of lies and deceit. If I had been in her shoes I wouldn’t have let it get that far.
Even I had just popped into her shoes this morning I would have said “I’m sorry” or “I’m so sorry.”